CHAPTER 3

In chapter 3 I learned about self in Interpersonal Communication and I learned topics dimensions of the self and self disclosure. In this topic the most related with my experience is on topic dimensions of the self that develops at least four sources.

1. OTHERS’ IMAGES OF YOU

Be a student is the most fun in our life because we doesn’t to think many thing in our life just focus to our study. However studies in university will change our attitudes. Like me to make friends always with us we must know how to act in front them. From that I will ask them how they feel with me is they comfortable when I around them or not. From that I will know what images that they give to me.

2. SOCIAL COMPARISONS

A social comparison is the best way for me to compare my selves with my friends especially in examinations. This is because I will feel challenge when my friends get a good result in the examinations. From that I will study hard to get a good result in examination.

3. CULTURAL TEACHINGS

Cultural teachings make me as a teenager know how to think which want is good for me or not. Not only that it also teach me how to manage my selves when I meet everyone around me. For example, I will act like a little kids when I with my young sisters because want them feel comfortable with me.

4. YOUR OWN INTERPRETATIONS AND EVALUATIONS

As my selves I always evaluations my selves when I do something. For example, I just go back to my village during the Gawai and Christmas seasons only. On that behaviors’ I think that my grandmother and grandfather know my reason why I only go back to village during that season only.