Chapter 10

UNIVERSAL OF INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP

In this chapter, I use a six-stage model of relationship. I very interested on this stage because have related to my experience. My hobbies is chatting with everyone. Now as we now many website that we can join to chat with someone. But I likely to join Rumah panjai and Rumahpanjaiborneo.com because we can chat with person that have same religion and nation with me. Mostly person that chat at that website are from Sabah and Sarawak. "Agi Idup Agi Ngelaban and Aramaiti" is the motto of that website. Like other people, I also add everyone from that websites as my friends. When I add one guy that use dinize as his nickname, I start my open channel. That is my first stage, which I said 'hai, mansa ruai nuan dulu'. After he reply my comment, I use second stage that is involvement. I use my intimacy stage to tackle him. After a few day, I chat again with this guy. I said that his eyes is cute. Then, he asked to exchanged handphone number. We started to message each other and after we are friend for 1 month, he asked me to be his lover but I rejected because I jsut want him to be my friend. That is my forth stage which is deterioration. But he try to tackle me to be his lover, I just said to give me some time to think about this. He use 5th stage which is repair. For 6th stagethat is dissolution, my answer to him is just to be friend and know each other first. That is my funny experience when I join this iban's website.